Wednesday, 19 July 2017

The Skincare Worth Investing In

I've managed to scrimp and save with other beauty products in the past covering everything from nails to hair. What I refuse to scrimp on though is what goes on my face. I love skincare. Serums, moisturisers, cleansers. They do it for me. And if I fall in love with a product I'm in for the long haul. It doesn't always work out the cheapest, but that being said these products tend to last me a long time. And more importantly? They work. It's tried and tested skincare worth investing in.


Sunday, 16 July 2017

Mesh Bodysuits, Origami Bags and Finding Your Style Mojo

I've got a whole section of my wardrobe dedicated to safe bets that I don like warm blankets. The thing is though, my go to roll neck and jeans combo begins to feel a little tired the fifth time in a row and isn't exactly the most emotionally or aesthetically rewarding. It's not just the clothes that begin to feel tired. I do too.

Don't get me wrong. I straight up love a style uniform. For me though I find it better to lean in to this with colour (it's a long standing joke among my girls and I that I dress the equivalent of a human bruise) rather than shape.  Moving flat made me reevaluate my entire wardrobe. I had to be unrelentingly brutal with what could fit in my new wardrobe (even with a little imagination that did turn all of my room in to an extended version of that.) As a result I wear everything more because, well, I know what I've got. Nothing tucked away only to resurface 3 years later any more.  And that was how I got my style mojo back.


Tuesday, 11 July 2017

Coming off anti-depressants

I was doing everything right. And on paper everything was right. Peachy fucking keen even. I'd started a business with my BFF, had negotiated some sweet contracts to start us off. We had funding. The healthy eating, exercise, life balance thing. You fucking bet I was checking off all those boxes left right and centre. But I was straight up struggling. And not in, oh I was having a bad day or a rough week. I wasn't so much floundering as I was drowning. I felt hollowed out and overwhelmed and there was no rhyme nor reason for it. It was while I was out for a run when it hit me. All of it. I didn't want to do it any more. I wasn't entirely convinced I could do it any more. I was emotionally spent and dying, well dying seemed like a viable option. Attractive even. I sat on a bench, defeated and called my best friend and howled.  The kind of crying that leaves your body aching and without any sense of catharsis. It was time to give anti-depressants a go.


Monday, 10 July 2017

The Big Old Baby Question

There's a question that women of a certain age will find themselves subject to. Especially if you're in a long time relationship. But the closer you get to 30 (or heaven forbid 40) more and more people will start to ask “So, you guys thinking of having kids?”
I mean it's a fairly personal and invasive question and weighted no matter what side you fall on. Having fertility problems? Well, hello to a particular sore spot. And heaven forbid you've decided you don't want them. The later? More likely to be met with “Oh, you'll change your mind when you're older.”


Wednesday, 5 July 2017

3 Summer Scents Worth Getting Obsessed About

Real talk time. I am a straight up scent slut. A big old whore for anything that smells fucking great. I mean, look, I get the appeal in having a signature. To be the woman who always smells of Chanel No 5, or Guerlain Shalimar - there's something enigmatic about it right? Properly low key sexy. Well I'm not really one for being low key. At least when it comes to my perfume. I mean I love bold, punchy scents. When it comes down to it, I want something lingering and identifiable. From my first perfume loves (Dolce & Gabanna Light Blue and Hugo Boss Deep Red and Jean Paul Gautier were on a near constant rotation for me as a teenager) to now (a mix of dark florals and gourmands from everything from Le Labo, Serge Lutons and Tom Ford) I am near enough constantly following my nose. I mean if we eat with our eyes, we lust with our noses right? Nothing quite captures the memory or the moment like smell.  So in the spirit of the season, I've picked out 3 of my favourite perfumes at the moment that are worth falling in love with and making them mark some spectacular Summer memories.


Monday, 3 July 2017

Is Body Positivity the New Body Shaming?

So, is body positivity the new body shaming? Short answer. No. Right, case closed guys, we can pack up. Good job all round. Lol, okay. I'll bite. Because while body-positivity at it's heart is well, positive, it's not perfect and still, at least in the wider populas version of it that's been co-oped by brands – it still sells a very commercially palatable form of the female body.

Monday, 26 June 2017

Why is Mansplaining Still a Thing?

I used to work in a comic book shop. Which as far as jobs go is pretty god damn unremarkable. Until you realise you're a woman. Working in a comic book shop. And today, someone's going to teach you about comics, or try and teach you about comics. Not have a conversation. No no, they are going to talk at you – name dropping some of the most prolific artists, writers working in the industry, iconic and current running story arcs, and expecting you not to know a damn thing. Except, I spent my university years covering topics like the oligopoly of the comic book industry, and my lunch breaks reading any trade I could get my hands on. The 40% discount? Tremendous and exploited. But, because I was a woman, in a comic book shop, I had to have comics explained to me.
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